The art of zen is a lost thing, except to those trying to practice it. My husband is trying to practice Buddha’s teachings. He is understanding that things done on accident or purpose require apologies. He is learning to ask for forgiveness. Anyone that knows him well will know this is difficult for him as he has always be one to do and go and tell. He is learning the art of stillness and being sympathetic towards others, understanding them even though he may not agree with them. I am encouraging him to do so and to seek inner peace. He is reading Buddha in Blue Jeans for the third time and understanding more each time he reads. This is not his first zen/Buddhist teaching he has read. I am trying to find inner peace and happiness. This is our new outlook on the year. Our family doesn’t understand where we are coming from. As a general rule we are an angry, vengeful bunch. Seeking this new direction and asking for help when needed are really new for us. We want to, through our actions and examples, pass this on to others. We are not looking for redemption by any means, just a new understanding. My goal of peace comes in many forms. Knowledge expansion, jazz music and calm attitudes among many other things are leading our new path. I hope to put those who would intervene in this new enlightenment behind us. Please journey the path or happiness. It will set you free.